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5 Stoic Lessons on Happiness I Wish I Knew Sooner

I don’t have a time machine, but by sharing these lessons with you, I hope I can help you to save time

Darius Foroux
6 min readJun 16, 2023

I started blogging in 2015, at 28 years old. It was the start of my writing career, and I had just moved back in with my parents in The Netherlands to save money.

Before that, I used to work for an IT research firm in London. I also started various businesses, including a laundry equipment service company with my father, which is still doing well today.

But no matter what career path I chose, it didn’t feel right. My heart wasn’t in those things.

And by 2015, I was really confused about what direction I wanted to take my life. That’s when I went on an epic learning spree and within two years, I was sure about what I wanted to do for the rest of my life.

Stoicism inspired me a lot and taught me many life lessons. Now, I learned all these important things when was 30, but sometimes I think, “What if I knew these things at 20?”

I don’t have a time machine, but by sharing these lessons with you, I hope I can help you to save time.

Here are the 5 things I wish I had known before I turned 30.

1. The need to please…

Darius Foroux
Darius Foroux

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That’s the power of compounding. Your small efforts will pile up over time.

It's great to read articles like this and be reminded of what can be improved in order to get closer to becoming who I want to be. Medium articles, though, only serve as a reminder- they don't change our actions, elevate our mindset. We have to take…

This is a remarkable read. I use to feel selfish when I would prioritize 90% of my time and energy for my own self development. When I would make time to self isolate and be obsessed with my self development I thought I was just conceited and weird…

This is good stuff! I need to apply several of these to my life!