We are defined not just by who we are in the present, but by how we managed our past experiences. — Erik Erikson, the psychoanalyst who coined the term, “identity crisis,”1 found that humans typically go through eight stages of life. Born in Germany, in 1902, to Danish parents but raised by a Jewish stepfather, Erikson grew up with a different upbringing from his peers. In 1927, the psychoanalyst Anna Freud…